I just wish I could hold onto you
but I can’t
So I find myself staring blankly at nothing for a couple minutes
simply thinking about you
I’ve come to terms that you are leaving,
but not yet that you are not going to be here
I miss you already
I just wish I could hold onto you
but I can’t
So I find myself staring blankly at nothing for a couple minutes
simply thinking about you
I’ve come to terms that you are leaving,
but not yet that you are not going to be here
I miss you already
I had a pretty great day today
and yet I feel sad
and I don’t know why.
I miss you
but I don’t know what “you” are
I can’t describe you
I can’t describe your face
I can’t describe how you make me laugh
I can’t describe how the world looks a bit brighter with you
But I know that you make me happy
and I know that I miss you
I don’t know who you are
I don’t know where you went
I don’t know why I miss you
but I do.
I hope that you are having a nice time wherever you are
I hope that the sun shines during the day
I hope that the stars twinkle at night
I hope the birds sing in the morning
I hope the crickets chirp at night
I hope that you are surrounded by friends
I hope that you have the company of family
I hope that you laugh and smile
I hope that the world looks a bit brighter for you.
I recently wore
flip-flops
that hurt my feet
not because I had no choice
but because the flip-flops
used to be my Grandma’s.
The least of many things
we do for sentimentality
I miss you
or maybe I just miss the memories we made
You’re still there
and I’m still here
Right next door
like we have been for almost thirteen years
I still see you every week
We still talk every week
. . . But seeing you and talking with you
isn’t the same as
being with you
I know you’re always there for me
And I hope you know I’m always there for you
But . . .
I miss you
or maybe I just miss the memories we made
***
Playing with the hose in the summer time
over at Grandma’s
pretending like we were firefighters
or whales
or secret spies with water/laser guns
We could travel the world
and be anyone or anything we wanted to be
with an old garden hose
***
Collecting moss growing on trees
and wood chips
and leaves from shrubs
and mud
we pretended like we were witches
making some magical potion
or we were super secret scientists on the edge of a breakthrough
and all we needed was a moon rock
and we would create a serum for superpowers
or we were secret spies (we really loved secrets, didn’t we?)
trying to stop the villain from collecting all the materials for a nuclear bomb
***
Sledding at your house
then my house
then your house
then my house
on winter snow days
where we would have sledding competitions
against the other super secret spy team
or we would create the biggest, tallest, thickest
snow fort the world had ever seen
of three feet tall
that would melt by the end of the month
or we would make snow angels until they covered the yard
***
On the bus you would show me the dresses you drew
and we would oh and aw at them
and you wanted to be a fashion designer
or we would crawl under the bus seats
from the front to the back
and ruin our clothes
but that was okay
because we were doing it together
or when you told me paper was the healthiest, best tasting thing in the whole wide world
so we ate paper for two weeks straight
***
Playing cards down in Grandma’s basement
where you taught me solitaire
and 52 pick up
or playing Rummy with Grandma in the dinning room
while eating rhubarb pie
and listening to country music
or playing Go Fish at sleep overs
and passing the cards back and forth
between our toes
***
I miss you
or maybe I just miss the memories we made
Now the memories seem to be
doing retakes together in Algebra 2/Trig
or brief chats consisting of “I like your shirt today!”
before class starts
or texts asking for a ride home
I know you are just a short walk away
or a text
or a phone call
but . . .
you might also be a childhood away
maybe the you I’m thinking about
went away
with the dolls and foam balls and other childhood toys
I miss you
or maybe I just miss the memories we made
***
To: Mysterious, 22
From: Nerd, 19
18 – 14, 18, 19, 19, – 2, 12, 21
Still remember the secret code?
88
How can I miss you
How can I miss you when you are only two feet away?
How can I miss you when you never left
and neither did I
I spend most of my waking hours with you
yet I miss you
I miss your laugh
I miss your pleasant sighs
I miss watching your hand swim across a page while you are writing
I miss watching your eyes dance across a page while you are reading
I miss knowing exactly how you interlace your fingers
I miss knowing exactly how you bob your hand to music
I miss you
and yet I see you everyday
nothing between us changed
there was no fight
there was no outside tragedy
there was no one added to the equation
well except that invited guest called
Life
and Responsibility
and Growing Up.
I now know how I can miss you
because even when you are two feet away from me
my mind and I can be millions of miles away.
So can we just pause Life?
So can we just put Responsibility on hold?
So can we just tell Growing Up to take a chill pill?
So can we reign in our minds
And stop missing each other
and start finding each other?
“I have found that no exertion of the legs can bring two minds much nearer to one another.”
-Henry David Thoreau
I sit here
and you stand there
just feet apart
but we both feel the desert widening behind us
with every breath not taken
to express these whirling thoughts.
And so the feet apart become
galaxies
each so unique and beautiful and full of life
but galaxies
are known for being large, formidable, and unexplored
and so you remind unexplored
and the universe has to grow a little large
to hold all the space between us.
We are both dazzling in our own right,
but the risk too high,
challenge too massive,
gamble with the odds never in our favor
to see maybe, if, possibly
we could dazzle brighter
together.
So
I sit here
and you stand there
just feet apart
but we both feel the desert widening behind us
with every breath not taken
to express these whirling thoughts.
But at the same time,
there is another “You”
who I so desperately want,
however there is true physical miles
between us,
not the ones we create for ourselves.
I sit here
and you dream, walk, stand, smile, live there
five-hundred miles between us
and right now I am a pillow
without a bed
I am a piece of bread
without jam
I am a lover
without lips
I am a playground
without children
I am a laugh
without a smile
I am an ocean
without waves
I am paper
without a pen
I am shoes
without a pair of socks
I am music
without a beat
But this time
But this time
But this time
there is nothing I can do to shrink this abyss between us.
So
I sit here
and you dream, walk, stand, smile, live there
five-hundred miles between us.
Oh how opposite these instances are
and yet
and yet
and yet
we go on living like these emotions we feel are not truly there.
Surrounded by Everyone
but alone
To your own thoughts
To your own feelings
To your own mind
Everyone only sees this husk of your’s
Not the real person inside
You’re all put together
but still something is missing
It’s not an ache
It’s not like you’re forgetting something
but part of you is missing
Yearning
Yearning
Yearning
Wanting to seek
but don’t know where to start
or even to end
The Yearning
Never get lost in the Sauce
If you want to be a hero well just follow me
Michael Ryan Hunsaker, Ph.D.